Smile, Play, Repeat: Tips for a Fun Kids Photo Session


Let’s be honest—our kids are growing up in a world full of cameras and screens. From the moment they’re born, it feels like we’re snapping photos non-stop, constantly asking them to say “cheese.” By the time they’re a little older, the novelty of smiling on command has often worn off. And that’s okay—I get it! I have two kids of my own, and I know that getting a genuine smile for a photo can sometimes feel impossible. Honestly, in the last few years, I have had kids that see my camera and start saying the longest CHEESEEEEEEEEEEE I have ever heard. A few times I have just let them continue on, to see if they could break the worlds record for the longest cheese without taking a breath.


I also know that dads often aren’t huge fans of photos either. I’ve had plenty show up to sessions with the football game playing on their phones! But don’t worry—photos are for moms, and I’m all for making it work, even if it means a little bribery. Bring treats, promise ice cream afterward, or talk to your kids ahead of time about what to expect.


Patience is key—especially with little ones or children with special needs. I pride myself on creating a calm, fun environment, and I even have a few tricks up my sleeve to get those genuine smiles. What not to do? Yelling. When kids feel pressured or scared, they shut down, and that’s no fun for anyone.


My approach is all about fun and freedom. I love kids running, climbing, making silly faces, and being themselves. It helps to explain ahead of time that the session will only last a certain amount of time—“Give me your best for 15 minutes!”—so they know there’s a clear beginning and end. And trust me, if I need your help guiding your child, I’ll ask and tell you exactly what to do. Having a crowd of family members all shouting “smile!” usually just distracts the kids, so it’s best to let me lead.


Sessions work best when kids see you enjoying yourself. Stay calm, offer treats, laugh, and be playful—kids follow your lead. Think of the session less as a test and more as a little adventure: they’ll be rewarded for following directions, smiling, and being part of something fun.


A few additional tips:

  • Let them bring a favorite toy or comfort item if it helps them feel relaxed.
  • Plan a little pre-session activity to burn off energy if needed.
  • Keep expectations realistic—some kids need a few minutes to warm up, and that’s totally normal.
  • Celebrate and praise their efforts afterward—it reinforces positive experiences with photos.


At the end of the day, it’s about capturing moments, not forcing perfection. When kids feel safe, happy, and part of the fun, the photos will naturally reflect that joy—and those are the memories that last a lifetime.